A reticence on the part of women to disclose domestic abuse (DA) to family doctors, allied to front‐line responses that do not always reflect an understanding of the structure and dynamics of DA, hampers the provision of professional support. Using data from 20 qualitative interviews with women who have experienced DA, this paper explores their discourse about interacting with family doctors. It is the first study to explore firsthand accounts of these interactions through Dixon Woods’ lens of candidacy. It finds disclosure to be inherently dynamic as a process and expands the candidacy lens by considering the: (i) conflicting candidacies of victims and perpetrators; (ii) diversionary disclosure tactics deployed by perpetrators and, (iii) t...